Help for your thoughts are vital and should not be ignore.
I’m sure that some of you Unique Gurls have already experienced some very real hurts in your lives. Disappointments, embarrassments and for some cruelty or violence. A hurt can happen in person and of course it happens online in ways that seem to never end. Sometimes personal hurts are not intentional and you are confused about the person that delivers the hurt. When trouble(s) happen regularly it becomes hard to cope or to make sense of the pain and betrayal. You just want to know why this is happening and why is it happening to you? It might seem like other people around you and online mostly live trouble free, this is not true. Somehow in your pain, you hang on tightly to your hopes. I'm glad that you do hang on, please keep hanging on.
I am certain that some of you have felt trapped in your troubles and trapped in your minds. You continue to ask yourself how can you cope, escape/end, solve, or just manage to handle pains that make you dislike yourself; you might even have thoughts of leaving this world or wish you had never being born?
I haven’t mentioned specific problems because every Gurl has felt hurt feelings and some issues are more intense to her, than maybe to others. Comparing your troubles to others is part of the trap of pain and hurt and doing this sometimes encourages thoughts of suicide. Do not compare yourself to others, remember you are your own UNIQUE self.
If images of hurting yourself or even ending your life has come to your mind or your dreams even once, understand that this is your emotions calling for you to to seek counseling from a professional for both your body and mind. Please share your thoughts and feelings with your parents, a teacher or an adult you trust; they will help you get the help you need. Everyone wants to believe that they can solve their own problems without help, but this is rarely ever true. We all need help; even professional help and this is OKAY Unique Gurl.
Get help, my Unique Gurls. Your feelings are seeking answers, wisdom, and most of all help.
As you have noticed from our other blog talks, JH Unique Gurl Blog cares about every girl but we always mention girls that have experienced Child Sexual Abuse/Trafficking. Girls forced into this abuse need to be free of this violence. She may attempt or think about physically hurting herself even though the abuse ‘is never her/your fault'. Sometimes girls feel so trapped inside and out that she imagines dying is better than living. YOUR LIFE IS VALUABLE, YOU MATTER. The Abuser/Trafficker who is doing the hurting is a CRIMINAL and uses lies and shame to keep girls from learning that THEIR LIFE MATTERS.
So Unique Gurls whether you are being hurt now or have been hurt in any way, it does not have to include physical and sexual abuse/trafficking. I WANT YOU TO GET HELP NOW. If you have started to hurt yourself or have thought about taking your own life, I WANT YOU TO GET HELP NOW. Call/text 988 to talk to someone who understands how to listen and how to best help. This link has international crisis help https://support.google.com/websearch/answer/11181469 .
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Believing in YOU,
Angela
angela@julieshaven.org
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